Four Key Steps I Take to Begin My Writing Day

by Alissa Lukara

Photo by Alissa Lukara

I learned so much during my dive into “being” on my medical odyssey these last 3 months, much of which relates to how I want to approach my own creative writing. I opened to profound lessons in being, surrender, letting go, staying present, trust, listening and receiving, and more that apply not only to my life, but also to how I write a book, a poem, an article, a blog post, essay or anything else.

Here are four key steps to how I now begin each writing day, integrating the lessons and gifts I received during my mind/body/spirit healing journey. Feel free to draw from any for your own writing.

Each day as I renew my “yes” to writing and to serve love in my writing, I make these four conscious choices:

1. I let go of all I know about writing.

Of how writing has to look or feel.

Of any and all shoulds. Of what or how or how much and when I should be writing or what I should be doing instead of writing.

Of what I think my life has to look like or include or not include for writing to happen.

Of efforting and struggle to write.

Of how I perceive my writing was in the past and will be in the future.

Of what it takes to be a professional writer today.

Of any attachments and stories I tell myself around writing.

2. I Surrender.

I surrender the novel (or anything else) I am writing into the hands of the divine, the muse, creative source.

I surrender the characters, the subject matter, the scene, the topic, the theme, the plot, each page, paragraph, sentence, word.

I surrender my present image of my writer self and open to new potentials.

I surrender any doubts and fears and emotions around writing.

I surrender all writing successes and failures from the past and projections of writing successes or failures in the future.

I surrender all concepts of what needs to be accomplished and in what time frame.

I surrender how I think I need to write my book, what method I need to use, even where I need to start writing that day.

I surrender all I think I know about the state of the publishing industry and what is required to be published or to self-publish.

I surrender all judgments and opinions of what good writing is and how it needs to happen and forgive myself for all mistaken beliefs and identifications around writing.

I surrender to the call to write this novel and be the vehicle for its manifestation.

3. I Forgive Myself:

For any and all mistaken beliefs or identities around writing.

4. I Stay Present and Trust:

I am grateful that each time I sit down to write is new, a new beginning.

Emptied, I welcome the spaciousness and the grace available in the present.

I become one with the present.

I rest in the stillness.

I rest in the arms of the divine, the muse, the writing guides and the creative source.

I trust in the silent awareness.

I listen to the spaces between and beyond the mind chatter.

Heart open, I receive and write what emerges from the stillness.

I express gratitude for the words and writing guidance I receive.

What about you? What do you think of this new approach to writing? I’d love to hear about yours, too. Please leave your comments and share your own experiences in the comment section of the blog post.

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6 Responses to Four Key Steps I Take to Begin My Writing Day

  1. Sim says:

    Unbelievable… you are the real deal… I don’t think everyone will appreciate the depth of where this is coming from. But if they are lucky enough, they will know that there is no better formula for success than what you have written above. It applies, not just to writing, but to anything you desire. This is the golden cosmic formula for the co-creation of whatever you wish to manifest in the world. Thank you for so kindly sharing this.

    • Alissa Lukara says:

      Thank you Sim. And yes, it’s how I choose now to approach everything in my life and work — to come from that divine center. I love your phrase, golden cosmic formula for co-creation, and yes, it’s all about the success of living through the heart in alignment with divine purpose and the love at the core. This makes me smile and I so appreciate that you got the depth of this and the commitment involved.

  2. Alissa, thank you for putting this out there. I am also trying this out, after a huge loss has intervened in my life and I have seen the superficiality of how I used to write: from my head. However, there is fear, it’s scary to trust that what needs to be expressed will arise. For me, I’m making the transition from non-fiction to fiction and that’s even more of an unknown entity, as far as writing it goes. But I feel it’s the thing I’m meant to do for story is such an ancient and integral part of human culture there is magic in it. I appreciate your sharing because I am so clear that if we band together with a singular intent, the power of our intention is augmented and we can help each other immeasurably. Let’s see if we can find a way to do that!
    gabrielle

    • Alissa Lukara says:

      You’re welcome, Gabrielle. And thank you for sharing your insights. Yes, I love the idea of banding together in our intent. And I resonate with the shift from nonfiction to fiction. My latest work is a novel, too. What I find in trusting the words to arise are that “if I sit there, words will come.” Sometimes I write the mind chatter to get it out of the way. Like watching the stream of thoughts in meditation without grabbing onto them. Enjoy the process, Alissa

  3. Jonah Blue says:

    I agree totally agree with Sim. You have not only given us the formula for joyous writing, but for joyous living too.
    Thank you so much
    Jonah

    • Thank you for your comment, Jonah. I am grateful for the opportunity to share this.

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